Avoiding a bad marriage starts way back with this phrase: "Susie (or whatever her name is), what is your home phone number?"
Yes, you better start recognizing what you can and cannot live with when you are DATING HER. We tell guys not to rush because you need time to really get to know the girl (and for her to know you). Your best chance to avoid a bad marriage starts with following these tips.
1. Remember not to make her your girlfriend until you hit at least 10 dates with her and she is making it obvious she wants to be your girlfriend, or better yet, she asks to be your girlfriend.
2. Do not even consider marriage until you get at least 2 years in with her and again, she must make it obvious that she wants to be your wife, or better yet, she asks you to get married.
Beyond those 2 items, what kind of girl do you have? Is she nice to other people, especially those that she does not need? Is she giving? Is she flexible? Is she level headed? Can you see her raising your future sons or daughters into good people? If she is a mother right now, is she a good mother? Do you two get along? Are there things that drive you nuts and if so, can you live with them or will they grind on you after 40 years of being with her?
On your side, do you treat her right? Do you act like a gentleman? Do you look at her and not other women when you are out with her? Do you show her respect, affection and romance? Do you have a lot of fun and laughter during the times you go out?
Remember, as you DATE a woman, you are seeing what kind of person she is, you are getting to know her and finding out what you can and cannot live with over the 30, 40 or 50 years you might be married.
People are in such a hurry to apply our fast world principles to what is a very old school institution.
Yes, you can get a full meal in 20 minutes, you can download 10 applications to your mobile phone in 30 minutes and you can even buy a car online in a few days but you CANNOT short circuit the marriage process.
It takes time for 2 people to get to know and understand where the other is coming from.
Sometimes it is just not meant to be. It is better to cut it off in the dating process as opposed to being stuck in a bad marriage or being in front of a divorce judge.
Remember guys, dating can eventually lead to marriage so you better understand what you can and cannot live with.
Yes you can Avoid A Bad Marriage by learning all about women in our free weekly dating women radio show and weekly articles. End your confusion with women NOW.
Jeff M. Stevens is heard all over the US on several commercial radio stations as co-host of The Doc Love Show: Understanding Women For Men Only. His co-host Doc Love has appeared on FOX News and in Time Magazine for his unique approach to dating women!
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